Weekend Wedding Love – The ‘Dress’

Finding the ‘perfect’ dress is on every brides wish list.

Here are some of my tips for those of you dress hunting:

- you know your style. If you would never wear strapless in the everyday world or it doesn’t suit you, things won’t be different because the dress is white. You want to be you, but a better version and ultimately feel comfortable on your wedding day.

- if you’re between sizes always go for the bigger size when ordering. It’s easier to take a dress in than to take a dress out, plus you don’t need the added pressure of having to lose weight.

- go with people you trust to give an honest opinion. Never rely on the Sales Assistants because while the majority of them are honest with their feedback, ultimately they are a business and want to sell you a dress.

- following on from that if the SA are rude. Just leave. You are a customer who in some cases is about to make a purchase of several hundred pounds. If they can’t be polite and professional, they don’t deserve your business.

- when trying on styles, take a similar pair of shoes that you will be wearing on the day. This will give you an idea of height and whether you need to order extra inches.

- if the bridal shop will allow, bring a camera and take pictures of yourself. It’s one thing to look at yourself in the mirror, but you get a more realistic image looking at yourself in a picture. It will help you see what you will look like to others. You can also take pictures of the back and see how that looks, as your guests will spend a lot of time looking at your back!

- don’t be afraid to haggle negotiate with your bridal shop. More often than not, they will be willing to throw in some extras. I got a free veil worth £100 {£100 for a net – but hey that’s another matter} when I bought my dress.

- depending on when you’re getting married, have a look at the big department stores who have bridal sections. When the store has their sale, it will include wedding dresses as well and you can often pick up a bargain.

- finally enjoy the process and have fun! Don’t stress over finding the perfect dress. Whatever you decide to wear will be beautiful and perfect for you.

Any more dress shopping tips ladies?

{Photo - Tunji Sarumi}